Unconditional Love

A caption from the book "A Return To Love" By: Marianne Williamson

When I read the above sentences in this book I not only gasp for air but I dialed every friend that I know. "Girl listen to this"! Who wouldn't say that though in this day in age; which gives reason why jealousy is so damaging and why unhealed people can't unconditionally love. We find pleasure in knowing the ex was hurt and left alone, dumb founded we wonder why the current relationship has so many trust issues. I ask though, would you trust someone that left an ex in pain? Honestly, would you? Because common sense should tell you what they are capable of. Yet on the flip side we fear two people who once had a relationship to mend and end on good terms. Fear it as if they are not capable of giving love unconditionally. So I ask you this, who are you with? Do you realize the damage of the unhealed, the pain of limited love?

Society says that boyfriend and girlfriend combine under one roof is okay. So the start of the relationship is already wrong. Society says that cheating is something that is acceptable because both do it. So the start of lust is already formed. Society says that divorce is easier and less embarrassing then working it out. So the start of separation is already done. Society says that baby momma and baby daddy is proper term. So the start of disrespect is already formed.

Do you realize how wrong, unacceptable, embarrassed and improper society would be if we healed before we engaged. Women can you say to your partner "I want you at peace with your ex, I want you to love your ex unconditionally", Men can you say to your partner "I want you to love your ex, with unconditional love and keep peace".

Ladies and Gentlemen it's time we tap society on the shoulder and inform them "He/She is not competition". We can not compete with anything that has been healed and left in the place earth says they ought to start fresh.

(c) 2011 Ebony Larijani